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After submitting a layout to Penscrappers of Jess, Jacq started hinting, "Hey ... I really like that layout you did of Jess ..." My queue to get with it & do one of her! The photographs are from Valentine's Day after she had gotten ready to go on a date with her boyfriend. She looked absolutely fabulous & so I rushed to get my camera for a quick photo session right before she walked out the door.
I actually did another layout with the same photo last nite but it seemed way too traditional, so after a glass of wine or two {no kids, not goblets...}, I opted to do an edgier layout to compliment the romantic holiday! I think she'll love this, when she sees it. Lots of layers & brushes have been used to dress it up & provide movement & interest. But truly, the photograph on its' own is quite stunning, so I've added a few extra that I retouched with Photoshop.
She is remarkably beautiful to us - whether in her soccer gear or all dressed-up! I love every facet of my daughter! I had flashbacks of her as a baby over the weekend that I'll share with you...
Jacqueline & Marty have always had a deep connection as daughter & father. They are very similar in temperment, they have a keen interest in physical fitness, diet & exercise, they are selfless, extremely intelligent & gentle. Jacq was our 1st child and, like many of you the entire process of becoming pregnant for the 1st time, going through pregnancy for the 1st time, delivering a child into the world; our world, for the 1st time, & watching her grow up from infancy into a beautiful woman is truly, a spellbinding, heartful journey of metamorphosis. All the 1st's that a 1st child brings. The magic, delight, the incredible adoration & love for your child that is like nothing you have ever known. I knew I was a woman with a full heart, compassionate, giving & dedicated to whatever crosses into my life; but I was not aware of the emotional overflow my heart was capable of until the births of my 3 children. With Jacqueline, I felt that for the 1st time. I knew I would love her forever. I knew there would always be an unspoken tie, beyond the virtues of responsibility & merely being a mother. A tie of love to last through all time & eternity. I would be there for her always. And in spirit, forever.
Yet, as close as my little *Jacq* & I were, she was as close to her father & in some ways closer still. Each day, after a long day at the office, he would spend time with Jacq, tickling, kissing & talking to her, reading to her, playing with her. And I was gleeful to capture photos of her mimicking his every expression one day, where he'd purse his lips together & she'd copy him, then he'd make an "o" shape with his mouth & she'd copy him, then he stuck out his tongue & she copied him. Her intense eyes studying him, happy to be in daddy's strong arms & enjoying his playful heart.
I'll never forget feeling a bit rejected as *Mommy*, when she reached out for her Daddy in our neighbor's swimming pool! I was like, "Hey! I'm *the mommy*! You should want me to hold you!!!" But you know, I understand what it's like to be held in the arms of a strong man who is kind-hearted, simple in his ways & steadfast. Of course! I sensed this about him, when we dated! The way he played with his nephew, Nick. How Nick loved him! And how Marty would hold him & toss him about at the lake with Nick smiling gleefully at this Uncle. A snapshot. I remember telling his Mother that was a moment that I fell in love with Marty, actually, more deeply in love with Marty. My mind fast forwarded to parenthood & I knew he'd be a wonderful Father & he is.
Things haven't changed too-too much since the days of her toddling about. She follows her Dad on jogs & bike rides, she's followed his academia footsteps throughout grade school, high school & college, as a leader. She's a leader on the soccer field; as he was in football, basketball & baseball. She's as calm as he is. Yet, she's much like her mother, me. She's detailed, focused & passionate. She's filled with a compassionate heart. She's loyal to her friends. She's artistic, creative & musical. She's not quite as emotional as I am because she controls it like her father. And the musical ability is from us both. The stars must have been in perfect alignment the moment she was conceived because, I swear, the girl has the best of us both!
This past weekend on Saturday morning, Jacq was sitting on the sofa. And Marty, who realizes his little ones are growing up & have grown up, pulled a Daddy on her. He scooched beside her on the sofa & put his arm around her while she leaned her head on his shoulder. A snapshot. Their feet up on the ottoman and both smiling smuggly, just like the photo of them sticking their tongues out at eachother. Adoration, affection & attachment: the love between a Father & Daughter. Timeless. And as a mother, for my children, I always wanted them to have that kind of love in our family. A simple treasure. A truth. A life tether. A hand to hold. A heart to dwell in.
She's still our little girl, all grown up ...
Now! On a different note, getting back to the whole goblet thing!
The goblet story ... When I partake of spirits, I get quite happy! I've observed others who are, well, mean drunks! Norma & I typically wind up laughing. It doesn't matter whether it's one or two glasses, I get the giggles, start cracking jokes, get louder, a tiny bit obnoxious & just let go! So, one night, one of my kids asked, "Hey Mom?! How many glasses of wine have you had!!???" And I answered truthfully, "Just one GOBLET!" LOL! {A huge wine glass that looks like a gold fish bowl of which had been filled to the brim!}
That's my new motto: Eat, Drink & Be Merry!
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Hope you all are having a wonderful week! Feel free to leave me a cute story to share of any antics you've been up to lately ... or send me an email for confidentiality! ;)
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